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Proverbs 17

28 verses • Westminster Leningrad Codex

Translator's Introduction

What This Chapter Is About

Proverbs 17 continues the Solomonic collection with twenty-eight proverbs that examine friendship, family bonds, the power and limits of speech, and the social consequences of conflict. The chapter gives particular attention to what holds relationships together and what tears them apart, with several proverbs exploring the nature of genuine friendship versus opportunistic alliance.

What Makes This Chapter Remarkable

Verse 17 — 'A friend loves at all times, and a brother is born for adversity' — is one of the most enduring statements on loyalty in world literature. The chapter also contains the remarkable medical observation that 'a joyful heart is good medicine, but a crushed spirit dries up the bones' (verse 22), anticipating by millennia the scientific recognition that emotional state affects physical health. Verse 3 uses the smelting metaphor — God refines hearts the way a crucible refines metal — which becomes one of the Hebrew Bible's most important images for divine testing.

Translation Friction

Verse 2 — 'A prudent servant will rule over a disgraceful son' — reflects the social dynamics of an era when servitude was a normal economic institution. The proverb's point is about merit overriding birthright, which is radical within its context, but the modern reader will note the assumption of a servant class. Verse 26 warns against punishing the righteous and striking nobles — the concern with protecting the powerful as well as the innocent reflects a hierarchical social order that modern readers may find uncomfortable.

Connections

The refining metaphor in verse 3 echoes Malachi 3:2-3 and 1 Peter 1:7. The 'friend who loves at all times' in verse 17 anticipates Jonathan's friendship with David (1 Samuel 18-20) and Jesus's statement 'Greater love has no one than this: to lay down one's life for one's friends' (John 15:13). The 'joyful heart as medicine' in verse 22 connects to 15:13 and 15:15.

Proverbs 17:1

ט֤וֹב פַּ֣ת חֲ֭רֵבָה וְשַׁלְוָה־בָ֑הּ מִ֝בַּ֗יִת מָלֵ֥א זִבְחֵי־רִֽיב׃

Better a dry crust with peace than a house full of feasting with conflict.

KJV Better is a dry morsel, and quietness therewith, than an house full of sacrifices with strife.

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Translator Notes

  1. Pat charevah ('a dry piece of bread, a crust') with shalvah ('tranquility, peace, quietness') outweighs bayit male zivche riv ('a house full of sacrifice-feasts with strife'). The zivchei riv are meat from sacrificial offerings — the finest food available. But abundance is worthless when accompanied by quarreling. This echoes 15:17 and reinforces the priority of relational quality over material quantity.
Proverbs 17:2

עֶֽבֶד־מַשְׂכִּ֗יל יִ֭מְשֹׁל בְּבֵ֣ן מֵבִ֑ישׁ וּבְת֥וֹךְ אַ֝חִ֗ים יַחֲלֹ֥ק נַחֲלָֽה׃

A shrewd servant will rule over a disgraceful son and will share the inheritance among the brothers.

KJV A wise servant shall have rule over a son that causeth shame, and shall have part of the inheritance among the brethren.

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Translator Notes

  1. The eved maskil ('servant who acts with insight') yimshol ('will rule over') the ben mevish ('son who causes shame'). Merit overrides birth order. The servant will even yachaloq nachalah ('divide the inheritance') among the brothers — gaining economic standing that would normally be reserved for biological heirs. Competence rewrites social hierarchy.
Proverbs 17:3

מַצְרֵ֣ף לַ֭כֶּסֶף וְכ֣וּר לַזָּהָ֑ב וּבֹחֵ֖ן לִבּ֣וֹת יְהוָֽה׃

The crucible is for silver and the furnace for gold, but the LORD tests hearts.

KJV The fining pot is for silver, and the furnace for gold: but the LORD trieth the hearts.

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Translator Notes

  1. The refining metaphor is one of the Hebrew Bible's most important images for divine testing. It appears in Psalm 66:10, Isaiah 48:10, Zechariah 13:9, and Malachi 3:2-3. The process is painful but purposeful — it does not destroy but purifies.
Proverbs 17:4

מֵ֭רַע מַקְשִׁ֣יב עַל־שְׂפַת־אָ֑וֶן שֶׁ֝֗קֶר מֵזִ֥ין עַל־לְשׁ֥וֹן הַוּֽוֹת׃

An evildoer listens to wicked lips; a liar gives ear to a destructive tongue.

KJV A wicked doer giveth heed to false lips; and a liar giveth ear to a naughty tongue.

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Translator Notes

  1. The mera ('evildoer') maqshiv al sefat aven ('gives attention to a lip of iniquity'). The sheqer ('liar') mezin al leshon havvot ('gives ear to a tongue of destruction'). People seek out speech that matches their own character — the wicked are drawn to wicked talk, and liars find other liars' words appealing. Moral character determines what information you consume.
Proverbs 17:5

לֹעֵ֣ג לָ֭רָשׁ חֵרֵ֣ף עֹשֵׂ֑הוּ שָׂמֵ֥חַ לְ֝אֵ֗יד לֹ֣א יִנָּקֶֽה׃

Whoever mocks the poor insults his Maker; whoever rejoices over disaster will not go unpunished.

KJV Whoso mocketh the poor reproacheth his Maker: and he that is glad at calamities shall not be unpunished.

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Translator Notes

  1. This echoes 14:31. The lo'eg la-rash ('one who mocks the poor') cheref osehu ('reproaches his Maker') — mockery of the poor is mockery of God who created the poor person. The same'ach le-eid ('one who rejoices at calamity, who celebrates another's disaster') lo yinnaqeh ('will not be held innocent'). Schadenfreude is a moral offense with divine consequences.
Proverbs 17:6

עֲטֶ֣רֶת זְ֭קֵנִים בְּנֵ֣י בָנִ֑ים וְתִפְאֶ֖רֶת בָּנִ֣ים אֲבוֹתָֽם׃

Grandchildren are the crown of the elderly, and the glory of children is their parents.

KJV Children's children are the crown of old men; and the glory of children are their fathers.

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Translator Notes

  1. Ateret zeqenim bene vanim ('the crown of old people is their grandchildren') — a long life crowned by grandchildren is the highest form of earthly blessing in the wisdom tradition. Ve-tif'eret banim avotam ('and the glory of children is their fathers/parents') — children derive their sense of identity and honor from their parents. The bonds run both directions: the old are crowned by the young, and the young are adorned by the old.
Proverbs 17:7

לֹ֣א נָ֭אוָה לְנָבָ֣ל שְׂפַת־יֶ֑תֶר אַ֝֗ף כִּֽי־לְנָדִ֥יב שְׂפַת־שָֽׁקֶר׃

Fine speech does not suit a fool — how much less do lying lips suit a noble.

KJV Excellent speech becometh not a fool: much less do lying lips a prince.

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Translator Notes

  1. Sefat yeter ('a lip of excess, fine/eloquent speech') does not suit the naval ('fool, churlish person'). The qal va-chomer intensifies: af ki le-nadiv sefat shaqer ('how much less lying speech for a noble/generous person'). If fine speech is wasted on a fool, then lying is even more inappropriate for someone who should be noble. The proverb is about the fitness between a person's character and their speech.
Proverbs 17:8

אֶ֣בֶן חֵ֭ן הַשֹּׁ֣חַד בְּעֵינֵ֣י בְעָלָ֑יו אֶל־כׇּל־אֲשֶׁ֖ר יִפְנֶ֣ה יַשְׂכִּֽיל׃

A bribe is like a magic stone in the eyes of its giver — wherever he turns, he succeeds.

KJV A gift is as a precious stone in the eyes of him that hath it: whithersoever it turneth, it prospereth.

Notes & Key Terms

Translator Notes

  1. Even chen ('a stone of grace/charm, a magic stone') — the shochad ('bribe, gift') appears to its possessor as an all-powerful tool. El kol asher yifneh yaskil ('wherever he turns he prospers/succeeds'). The proverb observes the perceived power of bribery without necessarily endorsing it — it describes how the briber sees the world. Bribery works, at least in appearance.
Proverbs 17:9

מְ֭כַסֶּה פֶּ֣שַׁע מְבַקֵּ֣שׁ אַהֲבָ֑ה וְשֹׁנֶ֥ה בְ֝דָבָ֗ר מַפְרִ֥יד אַלּֽוּף׃

Whoever covers an offense seeks love, but whoever keeps bringing it up separates close friends.

KJV He that covereth a transgression seeketh love; but he that repeateth a matter separateth very friends.

Notes & Key Terms

Translator Notes

  1. The verb mekhasseh ('covers') does not mean hiding wrongdoing from accountability but choosing not to rehearse a forgiven offense. The second line's shoneh ('repeats, brings up again') is the opposite action — constantly returning to the wound.
Proverbs 17:10

תֵּ֣חַת גְּ֭עָרָה בְּמֵבִ֑ין מֵהַכּ֖וֹת כְּסִ֣יל מֵאָֽה׃

A rebuke goes deeper into a perceptive person than a hundred blows into a fool.

KJV A reproof entereth more into a wise man than an hundred stripes into a fool.

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Translator Notes

  1. Techat ge'arah be-mevin ('a rebuke descends into one who understands') more effectively me-hakkot kesil me'ah ('than striking a fool a hundred times'). One word of correction, received by a person with understanding, accomplishes more than extreme physical punishment applied to someone who lacks discernment. The difference is in the receiver, not the correction.
Proverbs 17:11

אַךְ־מְרִ֥י יְבַקֶּשׁ־רָ֑ע וּמַלְאָ֥ךְ אַ֝כְזָרִ֗י יְשֻׁלַּח־בּֽוֹ׃

A rebellious person seeks only evil, so a merciless messenger will be sent against him.

KJV An evil man seeketh only rebellion: therefore a cruel messenger shall be sent against him.

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Translator Notes

  1. The meri ('rebellious, defiant one') yevaqqesh ra ('seeks evil') — rebellion is not neutral independence but active pursuit of harm. The consequence is that a mal'akh akhzari ('cruel/merciless messenger') yeshullach bo ('is sent against him'). Whether this is a human agent of judgment or a metaphor for inescapable consequences, the point is clear: rebellion against moral order triggers a severe response.
Proverbs 17:12

פָּגֹ֤שׁ דֹּ֣ב שַׁכּ֣וּל בְּאִ֑ישׁ וְאַל־כְּ֝סִ֗יל בְּאִוַּלְתּֽוֹ׃

Better to meet a bear robbed of her cubs than a fool caught up in his foolishness.

KJV Let a bear robbed of her whelps meet a man, rather than a fool in his folly.

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Translator Notes

  1. Pagosh dov shakkul be-ish ('let a bear bereaved of cubs meet a person') — a mother bear whose cubs have been taken is one of the most dangerous animals in the ancient Near Eastern imagination. Yet the proverb says: ve-al kesil be-ivvalto ('and not a fool in his folly'). The fool in the grip of his foolishness is more dangerous than a raging bear. The comparison is deliberately extreme — foolishness is not merely annoying but lethal.
Proverbs 17:13

מֵשִׁ֣יב רָ֭עָה תַּ֣חַת טוֹבָ֑ה לֹא־(תָמ֥וּשׁ) [תָמ֥ישׁ] רָ֝עָ֗ה מִבֵּיתֽוֹ׃

Whoever returns evil for good — evil will never leave his house.

KJV Whoso rewardeth evil for good, evil shall not depart from his house.

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Translator Notes

  1. The meshiv ra'ah tachat tovah ('one who returns evil in exchange for good') will find that lo tamush ra'ah mi-beto ('evil will not depart from his house'). The betrayal of kindness triggers a permanent curse — the person who repays good with evil sets in motion a chain of consequences that will haunt his household indefinitely. This is one of the strongest statements about moral causation in the collection.
Proverbs 17:14

פּ֣וֹטֵֽר מַ֭יִם רֵאשִׁ֣ית מָד֑וֹן וְלִפְנֵ֥י הִ֝תְגַּלַּ֗ע הָרִ֥יב נְטֽוֹשׁ׃

Starting a quarrel is like releasing water — so drop the dispute before it breaks loose.

KJV The beginning of strife is as when one letteth out water: therefore leave off contention, before it be meddled with.

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Translator Notes

  1. The hydraulic metaphor is brilliant: water pressure builds behind a dam, and the smallest breach becomes catastrophic. The verb poter ('releases, lets out') describes a deliberate action — the person who starts a quarrel is choosing to open the floodgate.
Proverbs 17:15

מַצְדִּ֣יק רָ֭שָׁע וּמַרְשִׁ֣יעַ צַדִּ֑יק תּוֹעֲבַ֥ת יְ֝הוָ֗ה גַּם־שְׁנֵיהֶֽם׃

Acquitting the guilty and condemning the innocent — both are detestable to the LORD.

KJV He that justifieth the wicked, and he that condemneth the just, even they both are abomination to the LORD.

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Translator Notes

  1. Matsdiq rasha ('one who declares the wicked righteous, who acquits the guilty') and marshi'a tsaddiq ('one who condemns the righteous, who declares the innocent guilty') — both inversions of justice are to'avat Yahweh gam sheneihem ('an abomination to the LORD, both of them'). God is equally offended by both forms of judicial corruption. Injustice in either direction provokes the same divine revulsion.
Proverbs 17:16

לָמָּה־זֶּ֣ה מְ֭חִיר בְּיַד־כְּסִ֣יל לִקְנוֹת חׇכְמָ֑ה וְלֶב־אָֽיִן׃

Why should a fool have money in hand to buy wisdom when he has no sense?

KJV Wherefore is there a price in the hand of a fool to get wisdom, seeing he hath no heart to it?

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Translator Notes

  1. The rhetorical question expresses exasperation: lammah zeh mechir be-yad kesil liqnot chokhmah ('why is there a purchase price in the hand of a fool to buy wisdom') ve-lev ayin ('and heart there is none')? The fool may have the resources (mechir, 'price, payment') but lacks the lev ('heart, mind, capacity') to receive what he purchases. Wisdom cannot be bought by those who lack the inner capacity to understand it.
Proverbs 17:17

בְּכׇל־עֵ֭ת אֹהֵ֣ב הָרֵ֑עַ וְאָ֥ח לְ֝צָרָ֗ה יִוָּלֵֽד׃

A true friend shows love at every turn, and a brother is born for adversity.

KJV A friend loveth at all times, and a brother is born for adversity.

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Translator Notes

  1. The verb yivvaled ('is born') is striking — it does not say a brother 'appears' or 'shows up' in adversity but that he was born for it. His existence finds its purpose in the crisis. This verse defines friendship and brotherhood in terms of loyalty under pressure.
Proverbs 17:18

אָדָ֣ם חֲסַר־לֵ֭ב תּוֹקֵ֣עַ כָּ֑ף עֹרֵ֥ב עֲ֝רֻבָּ֗ה לִפְנֵ֥י רֵעֵֽהוּ׃

A person who lacks sense shakes hands on a pledge and puts up security in his neighbor's presence.

KJV A man void of understanding striketh hands, and becometh surety in the presence of his friend.

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Translator Notes

  1. Adam chasar lev ('a person lacking heart/sense') toqe'a kaf ('strikes the hand, shakes hands') — the handshake seals a financial guarantee. He orev aruvvah ('pledges a pledge, takes on surety') lifne re'ehu ('before his neighbor'). The warning against surety recurs throughout Proverbs (6:1-5, 11:15) — it is foolish to take financial responsibility for another person's debts.
Proverbs 17:19

אֹהֵ֣ב פֶּ֭שַׁע אֹהֵ֣ב מַצָּ֑ה מַגְבִּ֥יהַ פִּ֝תְח֗וֹ מְבַקֶּשׁ־שָֽׁבֶר׃

Whoever loves conflict loves transgression; whoever builds his gate high invites ruin.

KJV He loveth transgression that loveth strife: and he that exalteth his gate seeketh destruction.

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Translator Notes

  1. Ohev pesha ohev matstsah ('one who loves transgression loves strife') — the two are inseparable. The one who magbiha pitcho ('raises his doorway high, builds an ostentatious gate') mevaqqesh shaver ('seeks breaking/ruin'). The high gate may symbolize arrogance — making oneself conspicuous invites destruction. Or it may be literal: an extravagant entrance signals wealth that attracts danger.
Proverbs 17:20

עִקֶּשׁ־לֵ֭ב לֹ֣א יִמְצָא־ט֑וֹב וְנֶהְפָּ֥ךְ בִּ֝לְשׁוֹנ֗וֹ יִפּ֥וֹל בְּרָעָֽה׃

The twisted in heart finds nothing good, and the one who distorts with his tongue falls into trouble.

KJV He that hath a froward heart findeth no good: and he that hath a perverse tongue falleth into mischief.

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Translator Notes

  1. The iqqesh lev ('twisted-hearted') lo yimtsa tov ('does not find good') — a crooked heart cannot recognize or receive what is genuinely beneficial. The nehpakh bi-lshono ('one who overturns/distorts with his tongue') yippol be-ra'ah ('falls into evil/calamity'). Both internal crookedness and verbal distortion lead to the same outcome: trouble.
Proverbs 17:21

יֹלֵ֣ד כְּ֭סִיל לְת֣וּגָה ל֑וֹ וְלֹֽא־יִ֝שְׂמַ֗ח אֲבִ֣י נָבָֽל׃

Whoever fathers a fool does so to his own grief; the parent of a senseless child has no joy.

KJV He that begetteth a fool doeth it to his sorrow: and the father of a fool hath no joy.

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Translator Notes

  1. Yoled kesil le-tugah lo ('the one who begets a fool — for grief it is to him'). The pain is inescapable: a foolish child is a permanent source of sorrow. Ve-lo yismach avi naval ('and the father of a churlish person does not rejoice'). The naval is not merely stupid but morally deficient — churlish, crass, and incapable of decency.
Proverbs 17:22

לֵ֣ב שָׂ֭מֵחַ יֵיטִ֣ב גֵּהָ֑ה וְר֥וּחַ נְ֝כֵאָ֗ה תְּיַבֶּשׁ־גָּֽרֶם׃

A joyful heart is good medicine, but a crushed spirit dries up the bones.

KJV A merry heart doeth good like a medicine: but a broken spirit drieth the bones.

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Translator Notes

  1. Lev same'ach yetiv gehah ('a joyful heart makes healing good, does good like a cure') — inner joy has medicinal power. Ruach nekhe'ah teyabbesh garem ('a crushed spirit dries up the bone') — emotional devastation produces physical deterioration. The sages understood what modern psychoneuroimmunology confirms: emotional states affect bodily health. This is not metaphor but observed reality presented as wisdom.
Proverbs 17:23

שֹׁ֣חַד מֵ֭חֵיק רָשָׁ֣ע יִקָּ֑ח לְ֝הַטּ֗וֹת אׇרְח֥וֹת מִשְׁפָּֽט׃

The wicked takes a bribe from inside his robe to pervert the course of justice.

KJV A wicked man taketh a gift out of the bosom to pervert the ways of judgment.

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Translator Notes

  1. Shochad me-cheiq ('a bribe from the bosom/fold of the garment') — hidden, secretive, passed discreetly — rasha yiqqach ('a wicked person takes/accepts'). The purpose: le-hattot orchot mishpat ('to bend the paths of justice, to pervert the course of judgment'). Bribery distorts the legal system, and the secrecy of the transaction underscores its shame.
Proverbs 17:24

אֶת־פְּנֵ֣י מֵבִ֣ין חׇכְמָ֑ה וְעֵינֵ֥י כְ֝סִ֗יל בִּקְצֵה־אָֽרֶץ׃

Wisdom is right in front of the discerning, but the eyes of a fool roam to the ends of the earth.

KJV Wisdom is before him that hath understanding; but the eyes of a fool are in the ends of the earth.

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Translator Notes

  1. Et pene mevin chokhmah ('before the face of the discerning person is wisdom') — wisdom is immediately available to the person who has understanding; it is right there. But eine kesil bi-qtseh arets ('the eyes of a fool are at the end of the earth') — the fool looks everywhere except where wisdom actually is. His attention is scattered to the far horizons while wisdom stands directly in front of him.
Proverbs 17:25

כַּ֣עַס לְ֭אָבִיו בֵּ֣ן כְּסִ֑יל וּ֝מֶ֗מֶר לְיוֹלַדְתּֽוֹ׃

A foolish son is a grief to his father and bitterness to the mother who bore him.

KJV A foolish son is a grief to his father, and bitterness to her that bare him.

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Translator Notes

  1. Ka'as le-aviv ben kesil ('vexation to his father is a foolish son') and memer le-yoladeto ('bitterness to the one who bore him, to his mother'). Both parents suffer. The father experiences ka'as ('vexation, anger, grief') and the mother memer ('bitterness'). A child's foolishness is the deepest disappointment a parent can face.
Proverbs 17:26

גַּ֤ם עֲנ֣וֹשׁ לַצַּדִּ֣יק לֹא־ט֑וֹב לְהַכּ֖וֹת נְדִיבִ֣ים עַל־יֹֽשֶׁר׃

Punishing the righteous is not right, nor is striking the noble for their integrity.

KJV Also to punish the just is not good, nor to strike princes for equity.

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Translator Notes

  1. Gam anosh la-tsaddiq lo tov ('also to fine/punish the righteous is not good') — the legal system must not penalize those who are in the right. Le-hakkot nedivim al yosher ('to strike nobles for uprightness') — those in positions of honor should not be punished for doing what is right. The verse defends the just from unjust punishment and the honorable from retaliation for their integrity.
Proverbs 17:27

חוֹשֵׂ֣ךְ אֲ֭מָרָיו יוֹדֵ֣עַ דָּ֑עַת (וְקַר) [יְקַר]־ר֝֗וּחַ אִ֣ישׁ תְּבוּנָֽה׃

The one who has knowledge uses few words, and the person of understanding keeps a cool head.

KJV He that hath knowledge spareth his words: and a man of understanding is of an excellent spirit.

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Translator Notes

  1. Chosekh amarav yode'a da'at ('the one who restrains his words knows knowledge') — economy of speech is a sign of genuine knowledge. Yeqar ruach ish tevunah ('precious/cool of spirit is a person of understanding') — the person of understanding does not overheat emotionally. Both restraint in speech and coolness of temperament mark the truly wise.
Proverbs 17:28

גַּ֤ם אֱוִ֗יל מַ֭חֲרִישׁ חָכָ֣ם יֵחָשֵׁ֑ב אֹטֵ֖ם שְׂפָתָ֣יו נָבֽוֹן׃

Even a fool who keeps silent is considered wise; whoever seals his lips is thought discerning.

KJV Even a fool, when he holdeth his peace, is counted wise: and he that shutteth his lips is esteemed a man of understanding.

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Translator Notes

  1. Gam evil macharish chakham yechashev ('even a fool, when he is silent, is reckoned wise'). The humor is intentional: a fool's best strategy is silence, because the moment he opens his mouth he reveals his folly. Otem sefatav navon ('the one who shuts his lips is considered discerning'). Silence is the most accessible form of wisdom — anyone can practice it.
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